If you or a loved one is struggling with alcohol or drug abuse, you’re probably wrestling with several complicated thoughts and emotions. You might even be dealing with the opinions of others. That’s because there still seem to be stigmas surrounding drug and alcohol abuse. Even today, some people seem to judge people who abuse drugs and alcohol. But judgment doesn’t solve such problems. Substance use disorderrs don’t lack morals, they have a disease. They’re sick, not weak or bad. Instead of punishing addicts, isn’t it better to help them so they end their addictions and prevent them from returning?
Unfortunately, judgment might keep people from admitting that they need help or from finding treatment. They might worry what other people will say or think about them. This reluctance to seek help can be dangerous, even deadly.
If we’re faced with such judgments, we have to remember that such judgments are opinions, not facts. We’re all wrong sometimes, and maybe these people are wrong in these instances. Besides, it’s always easier to judge other people and decide what’s best for their lives. It’s much harder to judge yourself objectively and make decisions that affect you.
It’s also important to remember that some people are always going to be negative, regardless of the situation. Haters ARE going to hate. Just check the comments section of practically any Internet page to see such negativity. It’s like some people live to criticize others for no reason at all.
Yes, it’s hard to ignore what other people say. Many of us want to please others and are not familiar or comfortable with it. But fighting substance use disorder and other problems requires strength. Part of this strength is the wisdom to determine what’s right for you and the courage to follow through. Standing up for ourselves could be a crucial step in our recoveries.
