Using Me Time to Heal

You often hear of people taking me time. While it might sound like a trendy catchphrase, it can be a great way to recharge a person’s batteries. It can be especially useful during recovery. As many people learn, healing doesn’t just occur during rehab. Healing...

Cosigning Our Problems

We don’t need anyone to cosign our BS. That’s a great expression that’s used in recovery circles. This phrase means that we don’t need anyone to encourage our lies, bad behavior, or other negative actions—our BS. If we’re actively suffering from drug or alcohol abuse,...

Fear and Addiction

Yesterday, we talked about fears that people have about their addictions and about their lives. Addiction can also create fear in others. Addiction creates so many scary things. If people have relatives and friends struggling with drug or alcohol abuse, they worry...

Progress, Not Perfection

Some former drug and alcohol abusers have adopted the motto “Progress, not perfection.” This phrase reminds me of one of my favorite quotations, “Perfect is the enemy of good,” a quotation by the writer and philosopher Voltaire. These expressions are good reminders to...

Talking and Healing

We’ve often heard about people who deal with things with a stiff upper lip. Other times, people have told other people to “man up” or “put on your big girl panties.” Strength is admirable. So is putting one foot in front of the other and continuing to move forward,...